My Tribe
Tonight I gave comfort and support to my dear friend who was needing a listening ear and a supportive loving presence. I remember times in my past where I have craved that empathic presence, and feeling alone and unheard. To listen to another’s fears and to offer comfort, is such a gift and I am so happy that I now have people in my life that can be that for me, and I am that to them. I spent many years feeling so alone, being the odd one out firstly in my family, then at school and beyond. I craved so much to ‘fit in’ and yet I never did. I always felt ‘separate’, like I was on the edge of the dance floor being an observer to life rather than a fully fledged member of the human contingent.
My alone years taught me the value of friendship, and I am so happy that I have a beautiful circle of women who I call my tribe. Each one is unique and calls to me in different ways. And each one I love with all my heart. Friendships are a gift I was given after a very long period of being alone. I feel I belong in this group and feel supported by their presence in my life. Thank you to all my friends for being the gift that keeps on giving! From my heart to yours, I love you all very much.